Monday 13 May 2013

Life heroes, are you one of them?




Real life heroes can be anybody who is willing to demonstrate himself/herself towards society what his true core is, this means the nature as a person is and will always be and can’t be modified just because we are influenced or fake. We might picture that a life hero has superpowers or can combat all the word but no, the person is humanitarian, helpful, always puts himself at the last and is calmed proposing solutions. Anybody can help, it is just the willingness and left out the laziness to do things for the benefit of other people and you, as this will make you feel moved and happy that you did one thing that can but not always move other people to do so; how good it would be if we could trust each other without having the feeling of insecurity and fear, prepared to be attacked, insulted etc. with only making what might seem a slight difference for instance crossing an old lady to other side of the street we show we care. Others might turn around and pretend they hadn’t seen the poor woman begging on the floor for money or the little kid who had released from his mother’s hand and ran to the street, w e can enumerate many other occasions and then we are with remorse, what if I had done that?. Real life heroes don’t find excuses and are also ordinary people with a different life and background and still they fight for humanity.

 It is not always easy to be the hero, what I think and have seen in movies or read articles impacts that like any other person in an accident, let’s say an airplane all the people are in a state of shock and very scared if they will make it till the end and all the important things he/she leaves behind. There will be many reactions from the people as this is the way their nature is, an example is to be shouting around and crying or the one determined to live and the others die, but here enters the hero he will try to stay and show he is calmed and react as quickly as possible to find a solution for the ones who are more wounded as for those who are not injured. He will not negotiate on who gets to live although it may sound the most selfish and cruel but for this cases where there is no rescue team that will come immediately or some radar that will locate them easily, the crisis increments by each minute, what he will do is try to save half of the crew and if he/she dies he would be at peace because of knowing he tried his best and then the impact he caused. Most likely people will really thank the man they never had the chance to meet but wished they had also helped him and stopped being pessimist on the situation, it is those moments when we can sit down and reflect on what we really care about and all the other things that revolve around ourselves that we don’t pay much attention because we might have it all. By means meaning having it all is just a saying because not having any values or that humanitarian sentiment we have lost the essence of being humans, we all live in the small world although distanced by countries, customs etc. but what unites people is the capacity of remembering things that totally broke apart continents , or those things we once said I don’t like this to happen to my family that’s when we shall save each other no matter what. To have the courage to say I don't like this and I want to change...

Finally I would like to say that this heroes do inspire, to overcome a problem no matter how big you can with the help of others but most importantly they show that we are not alone in this world although you may never get the chance to meet somebody new that you don’t know might save your life, it is good to say to someone new a “hi” the reaction can result in two ways positive or negative, but at least we are offering the world we don’t want to assimilate the roles of copies, with no feelings and never looking at things as they are but of what we think or assume. In every heart there has to be that thing that moves us, provokes us to feel sorry for once in a while, reasoning and learning from each other, the best of that person and how can I change. Some people might have lost the notion of doing to others some good it is not because I would mandatorily get something in exchange but to leave like a finger print of who we are, it is also wrong to say that because that person already stared at me ugly or I simply can’t see him I will make this person’s life miserable however there are things to things if the person is constantly bothering and doesn’t stop obviously you can’t be all nice to the person but talk it out. We might never fully understand how complicated humans are but we certainly can conduct and therefore motivate with our good intentions and actions a way to correspond one and one favoring each other.

"Hard times don't create heroes. It is during the hard times when the 'hero' within us is revealed."

Bob Riley